It’s back to School again. And that means: early homework and activity nights, organizing playdates and sleep-overs, sending chits to the class teacher (for this and that), and of course the inevitable library fines that come with territory (ouch!). And as if that is not plenty enough, there is the calendar to navigate (and pray to God) that you are in town for the concerts, band recital, swimming gala, prom nights and, Jesus hold the wheel, that you are there in time for the late bus drop-offs, and to check off a box, be a volunteer (at least once), ad infinitum.
Oh, and did I say, that while on the school premises, the retinue includes being overly polite, and acting gem-polished while at it. No place for straight-shooting riffraffs such as I. Yes, for all 8 years, I’ve never heard anyone being rude on the school grounds. Not even my dear, but spirited brother, Prince Rufaro Makaya, who’s always abusing me here with such reckless abandon. But then again, I suppose that’s his way of venting: what he is in short supply of at our Neverland school, Sugar Mountain (Zuckerberg) affords him – graffiti for my wall, and all, here. There, he is the paragon of a fine gentleman;-).
But seriously. It amazes me that the Good Lord deemed it fitting that right at the zenith of our careers is the time when the kids need us the most, our marriages require our every attention, and it is also the time for many of life’s defining decisions. Choices that will have you either shooting for the stars or crash-landing into the crevices of oblivion.
But there’s grace enough. There’s faith enough. And because He is The God of all our days, it’s all good. God is good.
November 9, 2019 at 7:17 pm
Yes. We need clones. Enjoy the new year.
November 9, 2019 at 7:17 pm
I beg time to compose an appropriate insult. In the meantime, it’s such a blessing to be present for them. The sacrifice and all the time juggling acts are so worth it.
November 9, 2019 at 7:17 pm
Jacob if you had had a baby sister she would have had….. Mchokozi maradufu!!!
November 9, 2019 at 7:18 pm
Vyema tu. But she would have suffered 😀
November 9, 2019 at 7:19 pm
Have remembered I need to send the teacher a note about the missing jumper.
November 9, 2019 at 7:19 pm
Welcome to the library…. hehehe
November 9, 2019 at 7:19 pm
Jacob Zikusooka ?????????
Reminders will help
November 9, 2019 at 7:20 pm
Well be back ??(that’s UG thingi… still wondering where it came from)…
Parenthood… a challenging role… but, oh my, the most rewarding…
There’s no experience that quite measures to being responsible for little peeps…
Enjoy the ride… because some day soon another “man” will “steal” yo place… ? ?
November 9, 2019 at 7:24 pm
Jacob… Pole Sana… #twoEdgedSword
November 9, 2019 at 7:25 pm
jehovah cares
November 9, 2019 at 7:25 pm
That puzzle that is -being at the zenith of career, with kids needing us the most, marriage, making life’s defining decisions etc!! Indeed only by His grace…only by His grace!
November 9, 2019 at 7:25 pm
And when it’s all over…you will actually miss it! ?
November 9, 2019 at 7:26 pm
Jacob Zikusooka Absolutely!
November 9, 2019 at 7:26 pm
HIS grace is sufficient even for Library fines ?
November 9, 2019 at 7:26 pm
I cannot wait to see which books these are that the elves stole whilst the girls slept!!!
November 9, 2019 at 7:27 pm
There are times when I pretend they are not my kids for like 30 minutes so I dont have to think about all their activities!
November 9, 2019 at 7:27 pm
Jacob Zikusooka then you snap of it before it gets out of control! I honestly thought the lost book fines were only in my house …I feel so happy that we share that burden! Especially when they dont even bother to read them
November 9, 2019 at 7:27 pm
Right. Why does it all crescendo at the same time?
November 9, 2019 at 7:28 pm
Enjoy ‘sic’
November 9, 2019 at 7:28 pm
Jacob Zikusooka I know!!!! kkkkkkk
November 9, 2019 at 7:28 pm
Wow! Its alot! And then multiply it by 3. But then, ?before you know it, they’re gone. Enjoy it all! A lot of learning along the way!
You do a great job!
November 9, 2019 at 7:29 pm
I need that reminder when in the middle of it all!
November 9, 2019 at 7:30 pm
Why, yes, we need clones, Belinda;-)
November 9, 2019 at 7:30 pm
Indeed, Prince! PS. Remember mercy???♂️
November 9, 2019 at 7:31 pm
Elizabeth Katigo, lakini mchokozi mwenye moyo safi?
November 9, 2019 at 7:31 pm
Angela, hook or crook (so help me God;-), am SO not paying any library fines this year. PS. So help me too????♂️
November 9, 2019 at 7:33 pm
Angela, library manenos everywhere???♂️
November 9, 2019 at 7:33 pm
True, Rai Henriette. It’s humbling to think God affords us the privilege to nurture such precious lives?? PS. And then you go spoiling a perfectly excellent submission with that last line???
November 9, 2019 at 7:33 pm
Martha, absolutely! He gives more grace?
November 9, 2019 at 7:33 pm
Rosie, the irony! And there are some gone aspects I still miss. The take-home is to enjoy the joy in the journey?
November 9, 2019 at 7:34 pm
Rosie, ha ha ha! PS. Next we meet, I’ll pass you the library slips??
November 9, 2019 at 7:34 pm
Lol Desire, that’s a noteworthy coping mechanism??
November 9, 2019 at 7:34 pm
Lol Desire! For fines we now advance future pay but not reading books is the unpardonable sin in this house. I can’t even remember when it was last committed?
November 9, 2019 at 7:34 pm
Suraiya, for the life of me, I’ve never heard back on that inquiry! But knowing God doesn’t err, we can rest with the comfort of knowing He gives us method in the madness of our lives??
November 9, 2019 at 7:34 pm
Lol Lucy, now you remind me of my Makerere next-door neighbor whose alphabet had “Z” glaringly missing????♂️
November 9, 2019 at 7:35 pm
Yes Marianne, the years are fleeting! Enjoy the journey too?
July 8, 2020 at 11:14 pm
Like!! Great article post.Really thank you! Really Cool.